(1) Propose a philosophy of life and MAKE people AGREE with you, thus feeling self contented.
(2) Make NO CHANGE in life, putting EXCUSES, and let day passes.
(3) Expect others RESPECTING YOU first while you show no gratitude to what others has made for you.
(4) Share quote posts in FB, and assume you HAVE changed.

很多时候，最讨厌的一些东西，
往往是自己哪片黑色地带，
还有自己不足的地方。